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Internet CaféAny Woman, Anywhere: Domestic Violence 
by Jessica Royer Ocken

Dear Café reader:
Abuse of any kind is a highly personal topic, and no two situations are exactly alike. The staff at Café urges you to see the following as merely a tiny sample of the many, many books and resources available.

Use the information listed below as a starting point for your own research to inform, to identify, or to begin the recovery process.


Author's Web site suggestions

Several faith institutions have resources available on domestic violence.

The ELCA Commission for Women, has a number of resources available on domestic violence. To order Ministry for the Abused, contact Rev. Michelle Miller.

The Faith Trust Institute can also provide a range of information and resources. The video, Broken Vows and Domestic Violence: What Churches Can Do can be ordered by following the purchasing instructions on this page.

Presbyterians Against Domestic Violence is a network of the Presbyterian Health, Education, and Welfare Association.


What does the church say about domestic violence? Read the ELCA’s Social Statement: For Peace in God’s World.

For more resources about domestic violence from the ELCA, access the Women of the ELCA webpage.

Many other denominations also have resources available: check their Web sites.

National Websites and resources

The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224) site is incredibly comprehensive, with information, resources, checklists, and inspiration for victims and abusers of all ages and genders. At this site you should absolutely take the time to scroll through the Domestic Violence Links page — check out the list for Domestic Violence and the Faith Community.

You can download the Domestic Violence Awareness handbook by accessing the U.S. Department of Agriculture Safety, Health and Employee Welfare division Web site.

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men
1-888-7-HELPLINE (1-888-743-5754)
e-mail: help@noexcuse4abuse.org

On the Men Stopping Violence site, check the “Publish Articles” page for pieces on the psychology of abuse, the fight to end abuse, and research and evaluation, among other topics.

"31% of women stalked by a current or former intimate partner are also sexually assaulted by that partner." (Stalking Resource Center Web site) This January, marks the 2nd annual National Stalking Awareness Month. Learn more about this form of violence.

The Education Wife Assault site offers information not only for married women, but for victims and abusers of all genders and ages, friends and families of victims and abusers, and domestic abuse prevention professionals. You can find plenty of well-informed, well-written articles of interest and lots of links to more sites.

The Women’s Law page features state by state legal information and resources for domestic violence. There is information for victims in many different situations: teens, immigrants, military, tribal information, as well as custody, kidnapping information, and safety planning.

The Equal Rights Amendment affirms that both men and women are equally entitled to the rights granted by the U. S. Constitution. First proposed in 1923 — and still not ratified by all 50 states — the ERA would provide a remedy for sex discrimination and provide equal legal status to women for the first time in our country’s history.

The White Ribbon Campaign is the largest effort in the world consisting of men working with men to end domestic violence against women.

Related articles and publications

"Many New or Expectant Mothers Die Violent Deaths" is an interesting article on homicide and pregnant women. The Washington Post on-line, Dec. 19, 2004.

“Drinking increases physical abuse: Men more likely to abuse partners on days they drink.”  This article is based on a report from the Research Institute on Addictions, Dec.15, 2004.

“Combination of stress, alcohol cause increase in holiday domestic abuse.” Fond du lac Reporter, Dec.17, 2004.

“Divorced from justice?” In its first ever report on personal status laws, Human Rights Watch (HRW) paints a bleak picture of women suffering under Egypt’s divorce system. Al-Ahram Weekly On-line, Dec.16, 2004.

The domestic violence in Lesbian, Bi, Gay and Transgender relationships page explores some important similarities and differences between domestic abuse in hetero- and homosexual relationships.

Stop Abuse For Everyone, (SAFE) provides services, resources and training for all victims of violence.

“Major scientific study examines domestic violence among gay men.” National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuals, Dec.19, 2004.

Books

The Verbally Abusive Relationship
by Patricia Evans, Adams Media Corporation, 1992.

No Place for Abuse: Biblical & Practical Resources to Combat Physical Violence by Catherine Clark Kroeger and Nancy Nason-Clark, InterVarsity Press, 2001.

Domestic Violence: A Medical Dictionary Bibliography and Annotated Research Guide to Internet References by Icon Health Publications, Icon Health, 2003.

Children Who See Too Much: Lessons from the Child Witness to Violence Project by Betsy McAlister Groves, Beacon Press, 2003.

It’s My Life Now: Starting Over After an Abusive Relationship or Domestic Violence by Meg Kennedy Dugan and Roger Hock, Routledge, 2001.

No Visible Wounds: Identifying Non-Physical Abuse of Women by Their Men by Mary Susan Miller, PhD, Ballantine Books, 1996.

Violence in Gay and Lesbian Domestic Partnerships by Claire M. Renzetti and Charles Harvey Miley, Haworth Press, 1996.

The Vagina Monologues by Eve Ensler, Villard, 2000.

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