Boldly sharing faith by Diane Dardón

 
 


It’s that time of year again. We’re bombarded with back-to-school sales,  and back-to-school shopping. The nation is preparing to send hundreds of thousands of children, young adults, and non-traditional students back into the academic setting. While some meet this back-to-school reality with sadness over another summer past, I greet each new school year with great enthusiasm.

   
  The Rev. Diane Dardón (far left) and women of Lutheran Campus Ministry, Northern Illinois University, Dekalb, IL.  

As a campus pastor, I am always excited about reunions with amazing young adults returning to campus. I look forward to meeting new students and learning about their hopes and dreams. I am energized as life, relationships, and blessings on campus unfold.

Building a friendship
Several years ago, I met two young women whose lives connected when they were randomly chosen to be college roommates. When I first met the roommates I was astonished at the friendship these two women—who seemed to be complete opposites—had developed so quickly. As time passed and the women became involved in campus ministry, I marveled at the joy these friends found in each other and in life in general. One day I asked them how they came to be so close and they shared a story of friendship made strong by faith.

When Liz and Tania learned they would be college roommates, they got to know each other through e-mails and text messages. Daily e-mails flew over the miles and text messages became the norm as two young women from different backgrounds and communities began building a friendship. They made plans for decorating their room. They arranged their schedules so they’d arrive on campus at the same time. They discussed their majors and signed up together for intramural sports.

When they finally met face to face, the women embraced as if they were friends who had known each other for ages. An electronic friendship became an electrified friendship that grew as the days unfolded. But the real growth and strength in the friendship came when Tania mustered the courage to talk to Liz about things of faith. (continued on next page)

 

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Faith Reflections by Diane Dardón

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Do not fear, for I am with you,
do not be afraid, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my victorious right hand.

Isaiah 41:10


When I enrolled our 7-year-old daughter in a summer science program, I was certain she would love every minute of it. The program was held at the elementary school she attended and I knew several of her playmates were also enrolled in the program. This was going to be a stellar week for my little Einstein.

As we made our way toward the registration table, Cathryn slowed her pace and her toothless smile disappeared. With each step I sensed more and more hesitancy from my usually happy child. By the time we reached the table, Cathryn was walking behind me with worry written across her beautiful face. She clung desperately to my skirt. I reached behind to bring Cathryn forward but that action prompted the her to scoot to the other side, out of my reach. I reached in the opposite direction and this time she wrapped her arms tightly around my thigh and refused to let go.

I completed the registration process and cajoled the child. She whispered, “Mom, what if I don’t know anyone? What if I don’t have any friends to talk to?” I tried to reassure Cathryn, but to no avail. I clumsily inched my way to the classroom with Cathryn clinging to my thigh.
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