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The Road to Recovery
For an addict to get her brain chemistry back in balance and break the vicious cycle of addiction, it’s crucial that she reaches out to recovery groups, trained counselors, or both.

 

 

“Even if you abstain from compulsive behavior, that alone is not enough,” says Dr. H. Westley Clark, M.D., a spokesperson for the Rockville, Maryland-based Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration. “Getting the right help can not only stop addiction and restore dopamine, but can show you how to manage your life long-term so you no longer feel you have to fill a void with dysfunctional behavior.”

People fighting addiction can join a 12-step group such as Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, or Gamblers Anonymous. In these programs, addicts ban together, meet regularly, and follow set steps to recovery. These groups not only have a social component, but a spiritual one, holding that belief in a higher power is key to effective healing.

People fighting addiction can try inpatient treatment, outpatient treatment, or counseling with a trained social worker, psychologist, or psychiatrist (preferably a professional who specializes in chemical dependency and is a member of NAADAC, the Association for Addiction Professionals). “If you have a mild problem, it may be a matter of months before treatment is successful,” says Dr. Najavits. “But you may require long-term intervention, which is usually more successful in the end.”

Once the support system is in place, there are other steps people can take to keep their dopamine level up.

1. Follow your bliss. “If you feel competent and dominant at what you’re doing, dopamine levels will rise,” says Wang. “So find a job you’re good at, and stick with it. If you’re a good cook, make delicious meals. If you’re a good artist, grab your brush or pen and paint or draw.”

2. Stay active. Studies show that getting at least 30 minutes of exercise per day can keep your brain chemistry humming at its happiest — and its healthiest.

3. Reach out to family, friends, other church members — and God. Social interaction boosts dopamine, and a recent Columbia University study found that having a personal relationship with God is inversely associated with substance abuse.

Even if you stop compulsive behavior before hitting the low point called rock bottom, getting sober is seldom easy. Our culture is one of addiction, where 30 percent of adults are hooked on cigarettes, 23 percent binge drink, and 8 percent take illegal drugs.

The good news is that by getting the right help and making the right choices, it’s possible to beat addiction — and addiction transfer — for good.

“I saw a psychiatrist for two years, and met women through my church who shared similar stories of sexual assault,” says Miller. “When I realized I wasn’t alone and this wasn’t shameful, I began to finally process my feelings. I stopped overeating and shopping, dropped that 100 pounds, and even managed to shed my credit card debt.”

For Finnegan, prayer did the trick — as did three years of going to Overeaters Anonymous meetings that she still attends regularly. “When I was actively binge eating and drinking, I always felt something was missing,” she says. “But recovery has taught me that I don’t have to seek assurance from outside myself. I don’t need to fill an emotional void with addiction, because I have all I’ll ever need — and more.”

*Names and identifying details changed to safeguard privacy.

For More Information
Alcoholics Anonymous
www.alcoholics-anonymous.org

National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information
http://ncadi.samhsa.gov/

Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration
http://www.samhsa.gov


Molly M. Ginty lives in New York. Her work has appeared in
Ms., Marie Claire, Redbook, Women’s e-News and Lutheran Woman Today magazine.

Dear Café reader:
The information presented in this article is only one part of the difficult topic of addiction. This information is not meant to replace a proper diagnosis by a professional. The staff at Café urges you to see the following as merely a sample of the many, many books and resources available.

Use the information listed above as a starting point for your own research to inform, to identify, or to begin the recovery process.
 

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Do you need a reason to get together with classmates, friends or colleagues this fall? The new Lutheran Woman Today Bible study "Blessed to Follow: The Beatitudes as a Compass for Discipleship," is now available. Read the introduction to this Bible study here.

Jesus, in his first public appearance in the Gospel of Matthew (5:3-12), climbs a hill and gives his followers a sermon that might have
left them perplexed, Martha E. Stortz writes in her 2007-2008 Bible study. We are most blessed when we’re at our lowest.

“Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” Or, as it is written in The Message: “you’re more blessed when you’re
at the end of your rope. With less of you, there is more of God. . . .” That makes some sense. When we humble ourselves, we can pay more attention to God and to others.

Jesus’ words give us direction on how we should live as Christians; they are a compass as we continue our journey of discipleship.
Just as God blessed all creation in Genesis, so does Jesus bless us and turn us around to be blessings for others.

We hope these Bible study sessions will spark reflection, conversation, and prayer. Join in the journey as we explore the lessons of blessings.

If you are on a college campus and doing the Bible study, let us know what you think! Email: cafe@elca.org and tell us how your group is doing. You can also leave your comments about the study on the new LWT blog. Check out the blog regularly to see what others including the author abd others are saying.

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All of us, at one time or another, have locked ourselves away out of fear — fear that someone might see who we really are, fear that someone we love might hurt us, fear that we can’t really be the kind of person people want us to be. That fear can drive us to addiction — fear makes the appeal of numbness so strong that we can’t resist. That fear can make us retreat into ourselves, locking away our hearts and souls until what little scrap of ourselves we let the world see is only a pale shadow of who we really are.

But Jesus was going to reach those frightened disciples behind their locked doors. Suddenly, in the midst of their fear, in the midst of that locked room, the resurrected Jesus appears, sharing peace with them — the peace that drives out the power of fear. Peace that reaches into all their shame, peace that reaches deep into their hearts, peace that rests on the power of God’s grace. Jesus comes into that tiny locked space, and Jesus covers all that dark and ugly stuff with the power of God’s love.

As people of faith, we know that we're kidding ourselves if we expect those who follow Jesus to always be clean and trouble-free. Life has never been like that. But for us, because of Jesus, we can step out from those locked hiding places and stand in the light of God’s love and God’s family. Our church community is where we can find a safety net, a hand to hold, someone to listen to us as we reveal what our life is really all about, someone to help us turn our eyes and hearts to those places where God is breaking through.

Addiction locks doors, forcing its victims into shamed, frightened silence. As people of God, we are called to help bring light into those places where some are locked away so that they too may experience the peace and the grace that Jesus offers.

For the people of that tiny church in Cleveland, reality is messy and scary, but they have refused to flee from it. There is nowhere that Jesus can’t go. There is no one beyond the reach of God. No matter how many locks we put on our doors, Jesus is standing with us, loving us, offering us grace and mercy, and telling us not to be afraid. Amen.

Rev. Brooke Petersen is a graduate of Lutheran School of Theology at Chicago and currently serves Irving Park Lutheran Church in Chicago, Ill.

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