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Getting free
Find one spiritual practice that puts you on the road to
recovery — prayer, meditation, walking, writing, singing. Make
it something free, make it something beautiful, make it
something your own. Pay off that debt, one penny by one
penny, and watch yourself bloom. Save your credit cards for
emergencies, when they can be useful, and throw off your
burden.
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Pay yourself first. Through
prayer and meditation and friends, and cool glasses of water
when it’s hot, and walks when it’s cool, and rest when
you’re sleepy, and fresh eyes when you're weary. Pray
more. Consider each day a gift that you cannot pay enough
interest on. Don’t be afraid. Be like the lilies of the
field.
Pay cash. Buy only what you
can afford at that moment. Perhaps each purchase can be a
silent prayer of intention and gratitude, a promise to self
and to vendor that this is a relationship that furthers our
own growth. In fact, use the whole process as a metaphor — we
should only ever use what we have available at the moment,
whether it’s time, energy, or money.
Ultimately, debt doesn’t
serve us, and it makes us forget how free we really are. The
other day my husband and I took our infant son to several
worrisome doctor visits. We had time to spare between appointments and went to a small diner on a nondescript
road between car shops and chain
sandwich stores. Inside this small restaurant, a Greek woman
and a 10-year-old girl were serving two men at the counter.
The woman — the owner — didn’t accept anything but cash, she told us as we went
to sit down. She’d had bad experiences with checks, she
said, and credit cards were too much trouble. My husband and
I had about ten bucks between us, but decided to stay.
The owner came over to take
our order and looked at my son. “He is OK, he is strong,”
she said, apropos of nothing. The food was
good. We didn’t have everything we wanted, but we had
everything we needed.
Clare La Plante is
co-author of two books on the saints: Heaven Help Us:
The Worrier's Guide to the Patron Saints and Dear
Saint Anne, Send Me a Man: And Other Time-tested Prayers for
Love. She lives near Chicago with her husband and son.
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